3. Give them a special job. Helping get the diapers or reading a book to the baby while you are feeding the baby or changing him or her.
4. Try to give them some special one on one time. I know it is exhausting, but they just want to feel loved and not forgotten about.
5. Ask others for help. My dad would take my son to open gym so he had some special time with Papa.
6. The ideas above can be done at school for the that child too. For some of the kids school is their safe place because they know the routine and you. You can talk to them about how Special they are to be a big brother or sister, give them a special job, have them share what their favorite thing is about being an older sibling now, give them some one on one time with you.
Have fun, stay calm, and try to remember how they feel! It is a fun, big change for everyone!